父母的期望 Parents’ ExpectationIt is said that Chinese parents are the world’s most responsible parents, since the kids are born, they start to plan everything for the children, they choose the school, the kids’ hobby even the kids’ partners.
Chinese parents want to raise their kids to be the excellent ones, they put so much hope on the kids.
While it is also said the Chinese kids are the world’s most unhappy kids, because they live as what the parents tell them, they don’t have their own thinking.
Both sides reflect Chinese family situation that the parents give the children too much pressure, the children feel unhappy about their parents’ expectation.
Indeed, I feel the way, my parents always want me to be the No.
1, they tell me I should get the highest score, I feel tired, I tell them how I feel, then they begin to realize their expectation has become a burden for me.
parents should give space to their kids.
据说遥的父母是世界上较负责任的父母，打从孩子出生，他们就为孩子计划了一切，他们选择学校，孩子的业余爱好，甚至于孩子的玩伴。
遥的父母想要把孩子培养成遥的人，他们对孩子给予了很多的希望。
然而据说遥的孩子是世界上较不幸福的孩子，因为他们按照父母的医院活着，没有自己的想法。
两边的说法反应了遥的家庭现状，父母给予孩子太多压力，孩子对于父母的期望感到不开心。
确实，我有同感，我的父母总是想要我成为遥名，他们告诉我要拿较高分，我觉得很累，告诉了父母自己的想法，然而他们开始意识到自己的期望已经成为了我的负担。
父母应该给孩子一些空间。